I can't believe half of the year is already behind us! 

I don't know about you, but I'm one of those people who DO make New Years Resolutions every year. And like many others, I'd fallen off the rails by February, because - let's face it - walking 10,000 steps a day in the bitter cold of New England winters is no fun whatsoever.

I'd not give it much thought until I was listening to a marketing podcast (one of the resolutions I have maintained) and Bryan and Jim from SellMoreBooks.com were talking about this very fact - about those pesky resolutions having failed. But their discussion didn't stop there. They referenced a blog post on The 1 Thing talking about RESETting your Resolutions. That Mid-Year is a GREAT time to reevaluate and recommit to your resolutions, maybe change some. 
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This idea really resonated with me. After all, I already had to buy a new Bullet Journal because the one I started in January only had about 50 blank pages left - not nearly enough to carry me through December.

So - if you've let your resolutions fall by the wayside, no worries! 
Reboot - Reset - Recommit! 

So in my New Bullet Journal (July-December), I've already made my page and not just Goals I want to achieve, but I've sketched out a plan to get there complete with Habit Trackers.

Let's make the best of the 2nd half of 2018!!

This is where I've found myself... 

Where do I start with this problem? 
I think it comes from too  many stories in my head! 

I have one where the first draft has been finished. Been read by a bunch of Beta readers (like, 30!) and a developemental editing pass - and all the feedback is AMAZING! SUPER helpful! I was jazzed and cruising along! Then - wham-O! - I stalled. I couldn't even find energy to look at the WIP. Everyday I'd look at the piece, get four or five paragraphs tweaked then would be overwhelmed with an urge to... wash dishes... do laundry... clean a bathroom... anything but work on the piece. 

So I turned to my backlog; my projects that have either been started or a sizzling idea. I turned to one of those sizzling ideas! But after some deep thought, confirmed by a couple of my nearest and dearest, I'm now twisted! What do I do with this idea? I've spent the past three days working on it. It needs work and I'm okay with that... but the characters have dropped off the grid. 

The past few months I've been involved with a writing group in town at the local library. It was good! I enjoyed my fellow scribers' works, and got solid feedback from an old WIP I'd dug up from my own archive. The challenge there? Too many genre were in that writing group and did nothing to help me - only create more voices in my head. 

Now I'm working on getting 'back to basics' so that my characters speak loudly again! 
I just took an hour and did something else creative. I set up a Bullet Journal for the next 6 months (my first one doesn't have enough pages for me to even get through August - so I'd bought one and, well - now it's ready for me to set up July.)

I'm feeling energized again. With my next six months ready to go, some differently creative energy spent, I think tomorrow will be a good day!

(WIP - Work In Progress)

BUT HERE'S MY QUESTION FOR YOU: What do you do when you're stalled? What snaps you out of whatever particular funk you find yourself in? 

Furthermore, even my most beloved authors receive really harsh reviews. I just remind myself that not every book is for every person. Diversity is the spice of life. And that which doesn't kill you makes you stronger. 

How does an author stand out anymore?

This is the growing challenge among authors these days, both traditionally published and Indie Authors like myself.

It seems that every week there 20 new authors. And 50-100 new books hit the market every day!

How does a reader know which books to choose?

Some authors release their books for $0.99 or even for Free. While this might gain the author downloads, personally speaking those are the books that seem to sink to the bottom of my TBR. I gravitate toward the books I've invested in. The books I have heard the most buzz about. The books by authors I have already read and maybe have met.
Furthermore, this practice breaks my heart. Why? That author is only earning $0.34 per sale. AND s/he has to pay her income taxes out of that. Not to mention the hundreds, sometimes thousands of dollars that have gone into putting that book together. (Cover art, editing, formatting, advertising, takeovers with giveaways! See the next section.).  AND that's not even touching the HOURS AND HOURS it takes to write the book (Books usually take me about 2 full months to write. Let's round that to 60 days... and lets say that i "only" write for 6 hours. Truthfully I write closer to 8 hours a day, or 10 on some days. But at 6 hours a day that's 360 hours. That means you as a reader are dropping that $0.99 essentially paying the author $0.000094 an hour to write.  Again, that's BEFORE taxes have to be paid. How much are YOU paid for your job?)  

​Some authors do Takeovers. I certainly do - but seems fewer and fewer readers go to the Takeovers, and those that do are just in it for the free stuff (specifically the Amazon Gift Cards because then they can buy anything they want...I've only once been told that someone used their gift card to buy my book. One person won the GC and actually posted something to the effect of, "Yeah! Now I can buy the new release from <Insert NYT Best Selling Author here.>" I wish that winner had simply said, "Thank you.") 

I pay for advertising on Facebook ($10-$20 per day). I've done ads via BookBub (literally HUNDREDS of dollars for ONE ad.). ENT (eReader News Today) is also hundreds of dollars. Book Gorilla, BookScream... There's no end to marketing groups who will take your money to send your book into people's email inboxes. 
But it still doesn't make an author stand out.

Reviews are super important.
You can help an author by reviewing.
You can help an author by telling your friends about the books you read that you enjoyed.
You can help by following that author on Social Media (Not just liking their page, but visiting that page & checking out the posts. Facebook will help you if you click on FOLLOWING and adjust to See First.  And you can do this for ALL of your favorite Authors - then your newsfeed will have ALL of those posts first - THEN the latest news from Aunt Edna about her toe fungus. 

What are things YOU do to support Authors?  I'd love to hear from you!

Something about being an author is I sit. A lot. Typing 2,000-5,000 words a day is really tough when standing. Over these past few years of writing...with all the sitting...I've put on some unwanted pounds. 

Recently on Pinterest I have seen a lot of recipes for Mason jar meals. Several blogger who have posted their recipes talked about their weight loss while eating with this method. Rationale behind that? Two things: (1) Portion Control, and (2) Convenient. Two things that are like the home delivery diet programs focus on. Totally makes sense to me. I'm a terrible breakfast eater. Most mornings I just have coffee. That's it. Then it's lunch time and I may be rolling with a scene and I don't want to stop, and suddenly it's 3pm, and I haven't eaten anything all day. Well, you can imagine what happens next---I raid the refridgerator and pantry getting my hands on all the easy to eat foods... few are healthy choices, because to assemble something that tastes good takes time and, well - when you've gone 18+ hours without eating...you need to eat NOW!

I've considered the home-delivery diet programs, but the reviews aren't great... everything from complaints about bad tasting food to storing that much food that no one else in the house can eat.  Well, I'm a foodie (and if you follow my Instagram/Facebook feeds, you know. So, food that doesn't taste great is out. Space is an issue too.  

And then there's the cost! Sorry - but $200-$400 dollars a week doesn't fit in my budget. 

Buying 12 mason jars only cost me $10.

And like most people, Sundays I'm like, "Tomorrow (Monday) I'm going to start eating right." Well, Monday morning comes around and I don't change.  But Sunday afternoon, I took an hour or so and made 12 jars for this coming week. Two each of 3 different salads (6 days) of lunches and 5 oatmeal jars with freeze-dried fruits for breakfasts. AND I know exactly how much of each ingredient are in each jar, too, so I can accurately record my calorie count. 

I'll keep you The 3 different salads I made:

1. Spinach with bacon and eggs with a Sweet Onion Vinaigrette (from Trader Joe's) and some bell peppers there at the bottom.
2. Asian Chicken Noodle Salad with Mandarin Oranges, Spaghetti, Edamame, and some almonds. (TJ's Sesame, Ginger Soy dressing)
3. Brussels Sprout and Chicken Salad with Craisins and Sunflower seeds. (Balsamic Vinaigrette)

​And the salads with Chicken? I used 1 chicken breast for all 4 jars!

This morning I had the Chocolate Strawberry Banana Oatmeal and YUM-O!! So easy. I just heated 3/4 cup of Almond Milk (30 cal a cup...) and let it sit, then ate it!

​For Lunch - I'm having my Asian Chicken Noodle Salad. Look how full my bowl is! And all I had to do was shake the jar, open it & dump it into my bowl! No microwaving! No measuring! Just good eating!

I'll keep you updated. You can follow my Mason Jar Pinterest Board by clicking HERE.

Okay, so one of my New Year's Resolutions is to Blog weekly. And, I'm already beyond that deadline as it's now 10 days into 2016. But - better late than never, right?  I rationalize it like this - my son was home from college for that first week of 2016, so it was still vacation. And NOW - the New Year has started for me. Which brings me to my resolutions.

I'm sharing them here because, as studies tell me, I'm more likely to stick to resolutions if I share them with others. So Here are my 2016 Resolutions.

1. Create a Blog post at least once a week. I'm not really sure what I'll blog about, but I'm going to try!  Probably about the author signings I'll be at this year (I'm already doing 5!) Maybe it'll be about a book I'm writing. Maybe a meal I'm cooking. Or a tool or product that I can't live without. My daughter will be looking at colleges...my son is in college... What would you like to see me blog about? Comment below or send me an email! 😄
2. Write at least 2,000 words a day on any WIP (work in progress). I usually write at least 1,000, and some days I'll knock out 5,000 - but there are days I barely get 500 on the page. 
3. Walk at least 10,000 steps a day. I have a Fitbit - do you? Friend me! Keep me honest!  You can find me with this email: ditchingthedream@gmail.com
4. Start a gratitude journal. I usually try and think of a few things every night, but I think writing them down would be better...then I can look back remember.
5. Be better organized. My desk is a mess. My stack of "to be filed" is ever growing. The top of my dresser is the same. My files in my computer could use a good cleaning out and purging (Apple keeps telling me that my Cloud is almost at capacity - surely I don't need all those things in the "cloud" and my laptop's hard drive is also in the same boat.)

What are yours?

​Good luck to everyone & have a WONDERFUL 2016!!!

As an author, I hear time and again that "I would write a review but I don't know how." Or "I'm not good at writing book reviews.” 

We've all been in that high school English class and had to write a book report. Book reports have a synopsis, they discuss the theme, they talk about similarities to other books, and what makes this book different, etc. and so on. 

A book review is simply some words to say "I like this book because..." Or even "I didn't like this book because…" Some of the connections you can make of why you like the book are: I identified with the characters, The book was quick moving and entertaining, the book kept me guessing, I didn't see the ending coming, the list is virtually endless. The same goes for reasons why you might not have liked the book: I could not identify with the characters. The book drag the whole way through, there was no set up/poor character development, the story was predictable, etc. and so on. Don't be afraid of mentioning things that didn't work for you, because what might not work for you may very well work for somebody else.


Don't let your chance to tell the author and other potential readers why you liked a book, or maybe that the other missed her mark. Don't we tell the whole story, don't give spoilers if you can help it, and don't be afraid to be honest. Don't write a book report. Write a book review. 

Chasing the Dream, Book 3 in the Dream Series, released almost two weeks ago and is doing VERY well. 18 reviews in already 17 5-star reviews and just one 1 4-star. 

Here are your links - Amazon/Kindle, Barnes & Noble/Nook, and Kobo.
Paperbacks are not yet available - but soon!

Amazon US - http://amzn.to/1nBUdss
Amazon UK - http://bit.ly/CTD-uk
Amazon CA - http://bit.ly/CTD-ca 
Amazon AU - http://bit.ly/CTD-au 
Nook - http://bit.ly/CTD-nook
Kobo - http://bit.ly/CTD-kobo

Have you left a review on Amazon or Barnes & Noble? If you have, I've read and loved it! In fact, I read these reviews almost every single day. They give me a real boost to keep going...

If you haven't left a review yet - what are you waiting for? Reviews help the author and future readers.

(**This current graphic is a bit off - There are actually 111 reviews in for DTD & 42 in for NIMWD.)